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8 Steps to Create Your Best Life & What you Want

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The number one thing you must always remember when you are trying to create a life you love is this:

‘The more you do of what you do, the more you get of what you’ve got.’.

This statement is derived from the Law of Attraction, which postulates that what we focus on, we get more of. For example, have you ever noticed that when a friend has just bought a new car, you start seeing that exact same type of new car everywhere? Or if you discover you need a new Microwave, suddenly, a catalogue pops into the mail, and ads for Microwaves are on TV all the time! This is the Law of Attraction in action and it can be harnessed and used in our favour, so long as we are aware of it.

The following eight steps, if taken seriously can help you to generate the things you most desire to have and achieve in your life, which is a sure way to put yourself on a path to creating a Life you Love. These eight steps can be taken however many times you feel you need to. Maybe once a month or only once every six months. The point is, to keep in touch with the Law of Attraction and in touch with your desires and goals for yourself and your Life.

1. What are Dominant Thoughts?

What are you current Dominant Thoughts? Sit down for a moment, somewhere quiet, and start to write down the main thoughts you are having at that moment. For Example, when I tried this recently these were my dominant thoughts:

  • I am unhappy/hating my job
  • I want a new Computer
  • I want to leave my job within the next 6 months
  • I am sick of having no money and having to say things like ‘I can’t afford it’.

Don’t limit yourself. If you have hundreds of thoughts, write them down (ok, maybe not hundreds, but you get the idea).

2. What are your Dominant Actions?

What are you current Dominant Actions? Just as you did with your Dominant Thoughts, sit down and make a list of the things you are doing with your time for 95% of the time. For Example, my dominant actions were:

  • Working at my Day Job
  • Working on my website and saying I should find more time to do this
  • Cleaning my house/doing housework
  • Socialising with friends & family

There is no need to write down things like Sleeping, or Eating as these are things that no person can do without and are stating the obvious. What we want to do is ascertain what you spend most of your time doing and whether or not it’s computer girltaking you to where you want to be in your life. When I made my list, I realised that I was nowhere near where I wanted to be by the way I was spending my time. It was a big eye opener. Although I thought I was spending enough time doing what I wanted to do like working on my websites, I realised after writing it down, that I was making way too many excuses as to why I couldn’t spend more time doing it.

3. What are your Current Goals?

What are your current Goals in your life? If you really hate the ‘G’ word, then answer this: What do you want to have/be/do within say, the next 3-6 months?

Here’s mine for another example:

  • To quit my job and work from home making money via passive income.
  • To do something exciting/fabulous for my 30th birthday
  • To buy the things I want/need – New Computer, Golf Clubs, Homewares, New Dinner Set.

4. Current Actions taking me toward my Goals

So, now we know what you want, but what are you currently doing about it? I would wager that your answer is pretty close to mine, which is nada, zip, zero, nothing! If you have done a couple of things to get you closer to these goals, then great! Write them down.

5. Current Thoughts regarding these Goals

This step is very important. In fact I would go so far as to say that it is one of the most important steps. Why? Here’s why, if you are wanting to be/do or have something and are maybe doing a couple of things now and then to try to get yourself where you want to be, but are constantly thinking to yourself , ‘What’s the point? ‘ It’s never going to happen anyway! Then how on earth will it ever happen? If you yourself don’t even believe it will.

Your thoughts are the key.

Here are my thoughts I was having at the time:

  • Job – ‘I can’t quit my job until my income is replaced. It takes a LONG time for a Blog or Online income to make money. I’ll feel guilty not working and even more guilty for leaving my job/boss.’
  • Birthday – ‘I’m not actually sure what I want to do, who to invite, if I can actually do anything, if I can actually afford to do anything.’
  • Buying Things I want – ‘I can’t afford it!

So there you have it. My own problem started to come out here. I knew what I wanted, but my thoughts were dragging me down. I was sabotaging myself – not a good thing. So my next step was to look my fears and thoughts straight in the eye and make a list of…

6. The Actions I need to take to achieve my goals

So, if I’m ever going to have/be or do the things I want I must take action. My current attempt at action toward these goals has been non-existent, so I obviously must improve on that. Make a list of the actions you know you must take in order to get yourself where you want to be in 3-6 months regarding the Goals you want to achieve. For me, it was this:

  • Job – Focus on Passive Income source more and learn about/expand on it. Rely on day job less and work harder at Home job.
  • Birthday – Find out about flights and hotels at destination. Do a rough cost outline and set the dates for the celebration. Send out invitations to friends and family.
  • Buying the things I want – Organise a savings account and put money aside. Price all the things I want via catalogues/internet etc, and work out a timeline of saving for them. Be grateful thankful for the things I have already and allow new things to come to me.

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7. The Dominant Thoughts I need to think to Achieve my Desires

So, we’ve already established how important your thoughts are in this process. Now we know what you want, and what action you need to take in order to get you closer to having it, we must also re-program your thoughts to help it all along. Positive Affirmations are a great tool in allowing your desires to come to you. Come up with a single sentence in reference to each of your Goals. Memorise them and say them to yourself when you’re driving, walking, doing dishes, in the shower and falling asleep. For example:

  • ‘I love my work from home job and passive income of $X per week.’
  • ‘I am so excited about my planned and paid for birthday trip to…’
  • ‘I am so happy and grateful now that I have my new computer/golf clubs/dinner set.’

8. Make a Summary

Now that you have mapped out the desires, actions and thoughts you need to achieve the Life you want for yourself, make a summary of it so you can refer to it often.Your summary could look something like this:

Goal: To quit my job and make $X per week in passive income.

Actions Required: Focus on Passive Income source more and learn about/expand on it. Rely on day job less and work harder at Home job.

Thoughts Required: ‘I love my work from home job and passive income of $X per week.’

No more excuses! You can have a Life you Love, it just takes some effort.

Nobody is going to do it or make it happen for you – you must do it and make it happen for yourself.

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